Bipolar Me

It’s been a while since you’ve heard from me, and I wanted to explain. I’ve been in and out of the hospital.

No, not the mental hospital. All this was purely physical. Well, it had certain effects on my mental health, but the reasons for my multiple stays were due to my body, not my brain or emotions.

It all started back in April, when I had my left knee replaced. This was a long-anticipated thing, necessitated by the fact that my knee was “bone on bone” (the doctor’s words) and the fact that the steroid shots were no longer working.

I will admit to having possibly unwarranted fears that I would wake up from anesthesia with mental deficits. I was assured that this had never happened. (I assume they meant while having a knee replacement, not ever. It has to have happened ever.) So I sucked it up and went under the knife, as the saying goes.

The operation went well. The aftermath, not so much. Time in the hospital, learning how to use a transfer board and walker. So far, so good. But when I went home, it turned out that I wasn’t healed sufficiently to be on my own. I fell. And kept falling. After one fall resulted in a pretty bloody shin, I was advised to go back to the hospital to make sure the artificial knee was still in its proper place. I then went to a post-acute care facility (nursing home), where it turned out I had an infection on my still-not-entirely-closed scar. I stayed and got PT.

Back home. No more falling (thanks, PT). But three days later, my leg swelled up from my toes to above my knee. I called the nurse hotline, and they advised me to go back to the hospital, where they determined that the fluid was not building up in my heart, as feared. Back to the rehab. I practiced walking and got to the point where I could (sort of) climb stairs.

Back home. Then I fell in my study and broke both sides of my ankle. Back to the hospital (fentanyl in the ambulance, ketamine anesthesia while they set it, and general anesthesia while they put in metal pins and plates). Back to the rehab, leg swathed in bandages and not allowed to put weight on it. (Ever tried standing while putting no weight on one foot? Don’t.) PT became interesting. The only way I could use a walker was with a knee sling, which is, at the least, awkward.

Finally, I got a boot and was able to put some weight on the foot. PT went better from then on, and after a while, they took the boot off and allowed me to put full weight on the foot. Eventually, I came home.

While I was at the rehab, I didn’t take my laptop. In addition to the fact that I was on pain meds and muscle relaxants for a lot of the time, I worried that my electronics would be stolen. So, no writing.

Now I’m at home, having outpatient PT, and I walked 250 steps with the walker yesterday.

But this blog is about my bipolar disorder. So, here’s what happened to my moods.

I tried hard and managed to stay mostly positive, like those TV commercials where people hold a little smiley face card in front of their faces. I faked this by slapping on a perky affect and making my voice rise in pitch when I say, “Yes, I’d love to go to PT.” “Yes, a shower sounds great.” “Can I try 15 minutes on the stationary bike today?” or “Next, I’d like to learn how to stand and pivot. Is that something I’d be able to do now?”

I did this especially for the PT folks, who took my willingness to try as a sign of progress. But there were times when I realized how impaired I actually was, and I felt depression. My husband has been very supportive, but he’s also pressuring me to get to where I can climb stairs again and walk up and down the wheelchair ramp we had installed. I can’t walk the ramp or the stairs with my walker, so doing that would mean I’d have to use a cane, which I do have but haven’t used in months. I need to have better balance and more stamina before I can even try that.

But I can write. So I am.